No one falls in love with an abuser. They groom you to love them. They groom you into obedience and control you through intimidation and fear. In the beginning it’s a normal relationship. You meet a man he is funny and charming. He tells you all the right things .that he will care for you,Continue reading “Why do we stay?”
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The after effect of abuse
When you have been told for so long that you are nothing that you are worthless that no one will ever love you. You begin to believe it. I did. I still do. But it’s so hard to break away from what you know. Especially when there is shame involved I was to ashamed toContinue reading “The after effect of abuse”
