Today was not a great day. Ever woken up feeling just ok? Neither happy to be here but not depressed about your existence? Well that was my Wednesday 2nd May 2018.

I had a cigarette, drink of water and opened my emails. I found a vile email from a woman who has sought to destroy my life. She was playing her favorite game, ‘how to break someone beyond recognition’. Now even though I have blocked her from almost everything due to her tendency to be the most hurtful and damaging person on the planet. She knows exactly what to do to someone she has known a very long time. It goes something like this;

Step 1 – Take someone who has been experiencing domestic violence she was a witnessed to personally and threaten their rights to be a mother. When they try to speak up, make sure everyone around them is poisoned by the lies and told not to have contact with the person.

Step 2 – Wait until they are vulnerable, Like awaiting surgery for cervical cancer before you drop your secret plan of taking them to family court when they dare not listen to the threat and report the violence.  Having already spread the rumors and got a hold of the child call them the night before surgery, tell them they cannot see their own child and say ‘I wanted to make sure you have a good day tomorrow’. I think the reasoning being ‘the judge might take that to mean that Carly can’t be too much of a risk’ and even when they beg to see the child she has kidnapped and the police tell her she cannot withhold, ignore them and not allow it because ‘the legal fees are high and if we don’t have his support then we might as well not go ahead with the action as we are likely to fail’, he being the abusive ex.

Step 3 – Appear to the world as if you are supportive but in reality torment the victim of abuse with the use of their child.

Step 4 – Stalk, follow them, intervene at their workplace, comment on all goings on but never spend the time to actually see what is really going on and meet secretly without permission with their psychologist who later puts false information in. Armed with all of that start to make up your own scenarios and lodge the lies as truth so that the person given the power to decide that child’s future has an unrealistic view of the situation.

Step 5 – When your plan to destroy someone’s life is working and they reach out for help or better yet for them to be left alone to recover just ignore them.

Step 6 – Make sure you continue this for 14 months and then make it look like you are curious as to why the situation isn’t improving.

Now don’t forget to grin and laugh at their pain. Don’t forget to give their abuser the opportunity to spend time with the child while it’s rubbed in their face. Make sure they have no self esteem and keep going with your attacks because it won’t be long until their failed attempts at suicide aren’t failed.

Why? To prove to the world just how hard done by they are!! Look what they have had to deal with while looking after this poor child.

This is the stairway to nowhere it seems.

She knows who she is. She allowed sexual abuse to happen when I was a child. This is why she allows this to happen now. She is the devil unexposed, the thief in the night who you know is there but for some reason you can’t seem to catch them in the act. Here’s hoping it’s not the case forever.

All I know is that I am 10 times the mother.

This is not the end, this is where it begins.

I am a mother of one, artist and blogger from Australia. I write children’s books and want to introduce awareness education for children in all schools. This is my journey from domestic violence and beyond. Where it will end up is anyone's guess. Share in my story....

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